3 Powerful Words to Help Each Other in Challenging Times

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May 7

MAY 6, 2024

Supporting others through challenging times isn’t just about solving their problems. It’s about the presence to acknowledge their hardships, stand in them and face whatever is to come, together.

If you’re in a position to support others that need it, offer your presence.

We all have ups and downs, good seasons and rough ones. I’ve heard this year has been a tough one for many, including myself.

I’ve been dealing with health complications, family struggles, business setbacks, relationship challenges, and the heart-wrenching reality that a loved one is nearing life’s end far too soon – the weight of these trials can sometimes feel insurmountable.

I’m all for the resilience, strength and courage we’ve tirelessly built, but at times it can seem insufficient against the relentless tide of ongoing challenges. No matter what we do, sometimes life is just really hard.

Amidst the chaos and pain – three words that a friend offered made all the difference.

“I am here,” she said.

Three modest words that didn’t really change anything, but somehow gave me enough courage to take the next step. The words simultaneously acknowledged the hardship, joined me in it for a moment, and were there to face it with me, together.

Someone being there for us – without pretense or pressure – can be the very thing that helps us move forward.

If you’re going through it right now, remember you’re not alone.

And if you’re in a position to lend support, never underestimate the power of offering those three simple words to someone going through it.

I am here.

We’ll get through it, together.

Key Idea

True support of another requires presence over pure problem solving. Supporting others through challenging times isn’t just about solving their problems. It’s about the presence to acknowledge their hardships, stand in them and face whatever is to come, together.

Takeaway

If you’re in a position to support others that need it, offer your presence

Build your Movement

If you’re challenged, could you share what you might need support with? If you’re in a position to support others, who might you offer your presence to support?